In Walden, Henry David Thoreau wrote “I never found the companion that was so companionable as solitude.”

While philosophers often extoll the virtues of being alone, from knowing one’s self better to immersing themselves into a bit of hard work, we also know that loneliness and social isolation can be mentally and physically harmful. According to a 2023 study, the impact of being socially disconnected is as harmful as smoking 15 cigarettes a day; for seniors, social isolation increases the risk of dementia by 50%, the chances of developing heart disease by 30%, and the likelihood of a stroke to 50%.

Public libraries, especially neighborhood branches like we have in Richmond, are instrumental when it comes to fighting social isolation. We are a crucial third space, where conversation is key and everyone is welcome. We offer opportunities for people to come together and grow, to meet and chat, and to engage with other people in a low-stakes, neutral environment. More than that, though, because those of us who work at public libraries are focused on customer service and our patrons, we enjoy getting to know our neighbors better!

An older patron came to the library the other day, needing to send off some paperwork; while he waited, one of the staff struck up a conversation with him. Over the course of the next few minutes, they talked about a variety of things, commiserating and chatting. After about 15 minutes, his documents had been sent off and he was gathering his things, and he thanked the staff person. “I live alone down the street,” he said, “and sometimes I go for days without talking to anyone. I’m so glad I could come here today.”

Being a place dedicated to reducing isolation is one of our central goals—but we can’t do it without you. So, whether you are at the library to enjoy a craft, take part in a book discussion, use the computers, get a document notarized, or any other reason, know that we are glad you’ve come to visit and we look forward to speaking with you.